Deepika Seksaria: In one of Christian Gharzani’s Instagram post @otptm I read a sentence “OUR OWN RESISTANCE IN THE FORM OF INSISTENCE BLOCKS ABUNDANCE” and get curious to know how does it work… So here is an article, written by CHRISTIAN GHARZANI, explaining how to identify your own Resistance that blocks Abundance.
RESISTANCE BLOCKS ABUNDANCE
👉 Making people aware that their own resistance in the form of insistence blocks abundance. So if more and more people will be aware of how abundant they already are, there will be more happiness.
Let’s define Abundance first 👇
In general, abundance is when we have plenty of something and when it’s always available; and it is not always related to money. Abundance can be manifested in several forms and money is just one of them.
Bashar defines it this way: The ability to do what you need to do when you need to do it.
The ceaseless presence of oxygen is, for example, a form of abundance.
“Making people aware that their own resistance in the form of insistence blocks abundance”👇
This is literally impossible to do. No one can make someone change, never; in any way, shape, or form.
While discussing with someone, if you tell him to do something and he ends up doing it, HE would be the one who made the change, not you. It appears to you that you “changed” him or that you convinced him, but this is not so. It’s true that you have influenced him, that you played a role in this change, where each one is a reflection of the other; and each one was ready to play this role; but the final decision, the final acceptance which led to change, came from him, not from you.
No one can affect another, never. The other has to agree to be affected (Of course, the agreement can be conscious or unconscious). So, we are all “protected/safe”.
It would be really wrong and unfair if anyone could change or influence another. It would be total chaos. Each one would be a victim and at the mercy of the other. No one would be protected. How could the creator accept such injustice? How would he even allow such a thing to happen? Where would be the omnipresent love?
The change can only happen if the person is ready to change. And to be more precise, it is not the person himself who is changing, the change happens to him and through him and he is just expressing it outwardly, physically.
💠 What is readiness?
Readiness is when someone is able to accept new definitions that were before refused (partially or totally) by him… by his ego, in fact. This latter is only responsible for his survival, for his sustenance in the physical world, only; and it is not concerned with “spiritual matters”. All his beliefs are making him (the avatar) safe, so why would it accept/allow new ones?
💠 So how then can someone accept new changes? Is he doomed to his “old beliefs”?
Of course not. In order to accept a new belief, to give a new definition, there should be something outside the system of beliefs; otherwise, the person would remain in this vicious circle. This something is the ability to accept (totally or partially). This acceptance does not come from him; it comes from his higher self.
So, people become ready when it is “their time” to be ready.
For those who are “trying” to change others, stop trying; it won’t work and you’ll be exhausted. And for those who are “undergoing” any change, don’t be afraid, nothing can harm you.
💠 Blaming others for your lack of abundance
Now, most of the time (if not always), you hear “It’s not me! He made me do it! It’s because of him!” Of course, those are the typical answers of someone who is blaming another. It is normal, perfectly okay, and legitimate.
Remember, what you are seeing, is only an avatar expressing his ego. It’s a puppet manifesting physically his ego in the form of gestures and making sounds out loud in the forms of words you agreed on, nothing more. So, don’t stick to the physical, and don’t judge him.
Personally, I find this very sweet and it makes me smile. I feel a lot of compassion and understanding toward such individuals. Of course, I cannot tell him “Nope… I’m sorry. He has nothing to do with it, it’s you! Stop blaming him, he’s innocent!” Most likely, he will feel threatened and his ego will start to build up.
So, people who are not ready yet will still be driven by their ego. They will insist by applying/using their beliefs, simply because according to them, it is true; and doing so, they will be resisting their natural flow, hence, abundance; but this is okay and it’s definitely part of their needed experience.
💠 The flow is always present whether they are aware of it or not.
And there is no such thing as lumpy flow. A flow is a flow and it is what it is. A person can create an experience of resistance to the flow, but it’s just an experience (btw, another example of abundance: always being able to create the impression that things are not working); it does not mean that the flow is not running smoothly. It is always running smoothly. And even this experience (the created one), is part of his flow.
If they are not ready, it simply means they are not ready to be ready. It’s as simple as that.
💠 Experiencing Scarcity does not mean that there is no Abundance.
Talking about abundance… the persons who are not ready yet, aren’t they ALWAYS creating experiences of scarcity? If they are ALWAYS able to create such experiences, does not this mean that there is abundance in the ability to create whatever they want? Isn’t this ability always available to them? Are you seeing here, another form of abundance?
Many people feel they are disconnected from the spiritual world. Of course, this is not possible, though they are able to create this feeling, this experience of disconnection and they are doing it all the time. Isn’t that a form of abundance?
How many persons feel powerless? Again, same as the disconnection experience.
Do you see the myriad of possibilities of experiences with all their outcomes? Isn’t it a form of abundance?
There are many other examples to demonstrate the omnipresence of abundance, but I think these are sufficient.
💠 Abundance is “part” of our nature. We don’t have to “search” for it, no efforts are needed.
When I mean “no efforts” are needed, I really mean it, as striving against a current to reach a certain goal is resistance. Here, the currents are our natural flow and our beliefs.
Of course, finally, what is “required”, is just a small shift in our thoughts, a tiny change in the direction of our attention. No need to struggle or suffer, it will come to us. It will come slowly, progressively, flawlessly, at our pace, at the right time, just when we need it, majestically, gracefully.
“So if more and more people will be aware of how abundant they already are, there will be more Happiness😀”👇
Basically, yes, it is true, but practically it is not possible. In our dimension, for now, this is utopic.
It is literally impossible to have happiness everywhere, so better to remove those rose-tinted glasses, simply because each concept has its polarity and each polarity must be experienced. And if polarity exists, it’s because people BELIEVE that if they do this, that will happen (Law of cause and effect), and this will generate karma. So, polarity is created and karma is its consequence. So there will always be “good people” and “bad people”.
(This concept, if fully grasped, people will start to change their standards and won’t be astonished and annoyed anymore by “How he can do such a thing?! How is that possible?! This is not acceptable! This is insane! Etc…”)
💠 Remember beliefs are not a bad thing.
Beliefs are the basics for the creation of our world.
There are alien civilizations which are done with this process. So, it is doable, yes; and it’s on a per-person basis, of course.
So, people’s awareness is definitely related to their readiness. Once ready, they will realize* that abundance is their true nature. Once realized, they won’t even need to react willingly in a certain way, their reaction will be “natural”, as if it was built-in. Nothing would be required from them, they will just have to “be”.
*(It’s just a matter of realization. They just have to realize it because abundance is already present, inherent, intrinsic)
💠 You attract what you emanate.
When you “are”, you do not act, nor react, you acknowledge and you just watch. Just by your presence, you attract what you emanate.
Wanting/hoping to see more happiness, wanting to change the world, pitying others, is a sign that you are “still in the process” of readiness; and this is perfect! Remember, readiness is not a target, it is a process.
💠 Don’t Wait !
Hoping is like waiting for an external force to make some changes… There are no external forces. Don’t wait, cuz you might wait for a few million years…
If you’re still having this perception, it is perfectly okay.
❓ What if this perception is there to show you something, to trigger something in you?
👉 Ask yourself this question, and the answer you will get will be what you need to be shown 😍👍
When I said “Don’t wait, cuz you might wait for a few million years…”, of course I cannot tell you what you should do, I didn’t mean it this way, but… what if telling you this, triggers something within you😉?
In conclusion, here is what you should do👇
Chillax! You chill and you relax! 😅👍
You have nothing to “DO”, in the real sense of “doing”. Everything will happen FOR you, THROUGH you and at divine timing.
Readiness comes to us from our higher self.
During the process of readiness (if I can put it this way), the person will realize:
- Nobody CAN suffer. Each one has chosen his theme (s) according to his beliefs. And EVERY minute event is PERFECTLY well organized and fitted in a more than perfect manner.
- The so-called “others”, are a reflection of him (though they are also creating their own reflections). When HE changes, THEY will change. (These “others” will change. The reflection they are themselves creating, will change. The person who is seeing these “others” will change also and the reflection he is creating will change as well.)
- Each “other” will be “seen” as “self”.
- Each “other” will be highly accepted, respected, and honored. (Other = The avatar himself AND his path, because they are one, in fact)
- There is no world, there are worlds and each one creates his own.
- Trust is the sine qua non. When there is trust, acceptance, allowance, and love without conditions will be a “natural” state of “being”.
There are other realizations, but those will do.
Atma Namaste 🙏
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